Being Who You Are


When the Grief Never Ends and You Can’t Reach Out to God

Widows never really “get over” the loss of their dear departed husbands. But, a healthy grieving process should ease up over time…shouldn’t it? Not always. Here are a few ideas on what do you do when the grief never ends, and you can’t reach out to God. “Today is hard because it’s the third anniversary of my husband’s death,” says […]

When Grief Never Ends Reach Out to God

3 Ways to Find Peace When You’re Struggling With Fear and Anxiety

3 Ways to Find Peace When You’re Anxious and Afraid

Two readers recently asked for tips on how to find peace when you’re struggling with anxiety and fear. I know well those anxious, fearful feelings — they were unwelcome visitors on many a dark night. I’ve tried several ways to find peace; below, I’ll share three of my most Blossomy tips for fighting anxiety and fear. Here’s one reader’s comment, […]


7 Smart Ways to Adjust to Being a Single Woman Over 40 

Maybe the single life when you’re a woman in your 40s is a dream come true – or maybe it’s your worst nightmare! Perhaps it’s a little of both. Maybe you feel like a failure because you’re not in a successful relationship, or you feel like a success because you escaped an unhealthy marriage. “I feel like a failure because […]

Adjust to Being a Single for Women Over 40

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What to Remember When You Feel Like No One Cares

If you feel lost and unwanted – like no one cares about you – hang on. I understand what it’s like to be abandoned, rejected, and alone. When you feel like no one cares, you don’t see the point in life. You don’t necessarily want to end your life…you just want the feeling of being alone to go away. One […]


How to Forgive Yourself for Not Doing More

Don’t let guilt and regret consume and overwhelm you. These seven practical steps on how to forgive yourself for not doing more will help you heal, let go of the past, and move forward. Who knows — maybe you’ll even start to plant the seeds and nurture the conditions that will help you Blossom into who you were created to […]


Ways to Stop Feeling Like a Failure When You're Over 40

7 Ways to Stop Feeling Like a Failure When You’re Over 40

Your life took a wrong turn somewhere along the way. You never thought you’d feel like a failure over 40 – maybe your career is empty, your relationships disappointing, your heart broken because of a betrayal or loss. Maybe your family is expressing their disapproval or disappointment with you. Guess what? You are not alone…and your life isn’t even half […]


Do You Struggle to Let Things Go? 5 Ways to Live by Faith

You know letting things go – past hurts, people you love, plans you create, places you long for – is freedom. But HOW do you let things go and live by faith? These tips are inspired by a question a member asked in our She Blossoms Facebook Group. First, here’s the quote about letting things go that inspired her question: […]

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How to Stop Negative Thoughts From Controlling Your Life

4 Ways to Take Control of Negative Thoughts – Today!

Are you dwelling in the past or worrying about the future? Whether you’re struggling with negativity because of things that happened in the past, or worries about what life will bring later today, tomorrow, or next year – you can learn how to stop negative thoughts that seem to take control of your life. And, you WILL Blossom into the […]