From Believing in God to Having a Relationship With Jesus


What’s the difference between believing in God or a Higher Power, versus having a personal relationship with Jesus? A “She Blossoms” reader inspired me to write this article; below is her question about belief in God versus having a relationship with Jesus.

In this article, you won’t find complicated theological arguments about why believing in God is important or how to have a relationship with Jesus. Instead, you’ll see why my personal relationship with Jesus Christ is more important than anything in my life and how it changed who I am. The bottom line is that my relationship with Jesus freed me to Blossom into who I was created to be, in ways that just believing in God never could.

Here, you’ll also find a few comments from another “She Blossoms” reader. I welcome your thoughts and questions! And don’t worry: I won’t try to convert you to my Christian beliefs. I’m just happy to share how my relationship with Jesus has changed my identity, life, and perspective of the world.


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“Thank you for your most recent article,” says L. on How to Protect Yourself From Being Used in a Relationship. “I was very comforted by it….I do have a question about our words: ‘It’s not enough to believe in God or a Higher Power. Even the devil believes! Your faith has to be developed and strengthened by building a relationship with Jesus.’ What do you mean when you say even the devil believes? And what is the difference between believing in Jesus (or in my case a Higher Power) and having a relationship with Him (It?). Thank you kindly.”

From Believing in God to Having a Relationship With Jesus

Here are the two questions:

  1. What do you mean by saying “even the devil believes”?
  2. What is the difference between believing in Jesus (or a Higher Power) and having a relationship with Him?

Your thoughts are welcome in the comments section below. Feel free to ask questions and challenge my statements. If I can explain my personal experience with Jesus — and my belief in God — better, I’d be happy to try.

The most important thing to remember is that everyone has a different relationship and experience with God, because we’re all unique people. Finding God can change your life forever…or it can leave you cold.

The devil or Satan believes in God

Evil and spiritual warfare exists — whether or not you call it the devil or Satan. In the Bible, God and Jesus both talked directly to Satan. You don’t have to rely on Scripture to find evidence of Satan or the devil; he runs rampant through the world, people, literature, relationships, and even the most seemingly dull or benign circumstances! Satan is a sneaky devil, and he is more likely to entice and tempt you with something beautiful and even “harmless.” Love and sex, for example, are beautiful gifts from God…and Satan can pervert and destroy them through affairs, porn, and even obsessively “loving” a married man.

So, when I say “even the devil believes in God” I mean exactly that: Satan not only knows God (and Jesus and the Holy Spirit) exists, he talks to God and actively fights to bring pain, destruction, darkness, hopelessness and misery to the world. Satan wants you to be sad, bitter, hopeless and heartbroken. He wants you to doubt God’s goodness and love, and he doesn’t want you to have a relationship with Jesus Christ.

Belief doesn’t equal relationship

“Satan not only believes in God’s existence, he knows the Bible from cover-to-cover,” says E. in my She Blossoms Facebook Group. “His beliefs about God are correct, but He is an enemy of God.” Simply believing God exists doesn’t mean you have a personal relationship with Him. Even if you believe in Jesus and call yourself a Christian, you may not have a personal relationship with God.

For example, I believe Oprah Winfrey exists. This doesn’t mean I have a relationship with her. I don’t know her; I know of her. I read about her, I hear about her, sometimes I even see her on TV. But I know nothing about her true character, qualities, motivations or life. I may think I know her because I’ve read about her, but the truth is I can only know her by actually spending time with her. I’d have to talk to her, walk with her, and be part of her daily life before actually knowing her. 

It’s the same with knowing God: you can’t claim to know the true God until you have a personal relationship Jesus Christ. That’s the difference between believing in God versus having a relationship with Jesus. And, all healthy, vibrant relationships must involve communication, presence, freedom, trust and respect. 

Question for you: do you have a relationship with your Higher Power? I’d love to hear about it below! When do you walk and talk with your Higher Power? How does he communicate with you? How does he feel about you…and how do you feel about him? 

A third relationship: the Holy Spirit

I love love love the Holy Spirit! I say “good morning” to Him every day, and ask Him to infuse my body, mind, spirit and soul with His power, creativity, and inspiration. The Holy Spirit is part of the trinity: God, His Son Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit. They are three in one, just like I’m three things (eg, Christian, writer, and wife) at the same time. Those three elements of my identity are all part of me, yet they’re separate. The same, yet different.

Believing in God is fundamental to a healthy life, because He created us to believe in Him. Those feelings of emptiness and loneliness you have deep in your soul can only be filled by Him. Accepting Jesus Christ as His son and your Savior is essential. Building a personal relationship with Jesus is the next step — and you get the gift of the Holy Spirit! His wisdom, comfort, guidance, insights and presence is critical to my daily life. 

How my relationship with Jesus changed my life

I grew up believing in God, but I didn’t start developing a personal relationship with Jesus until about four years ago. I accepted Jesus into my heart when I was a pre-teen, but I drifted away (very hard childhood). I recommitted my life to God when I was about 27, but didn’t actually deepen my relationship with Jesus until I was about 44.

From Believing in God to Having a Relationship With Jesus

From Believing in God to Having a Relationship With Jesus

To me, having a relationship with Jesus means learning who He is. There are so many layers of meaning and depth in Scripture, and it’s only until you dig in that you actually learn about God’s character. It takes time, effort and energy…but the rewards are literally life-changing.

My relationship with God has changed my heart by changing how I see myself. I am naturally filled with joy, peace and love. My identity is no longer determined by what people think or say about me, or even how they treat me. I no longer struggle to try to overcome problems or heal from old emotional wounds. Somehow, simply claiming my identity in Jesus has changed everything. Receiving His forgiveness, grace and love has set me free spiritually, emotionally, and even physically.

If you believe in Jesus but have lost your way, read How to Rebuild Your Relationship With God.

A final word about Satan and Jesus from my “She Blossoms” reader 

“Satan does not want us to believe the words of Jesus ‘I am the way, the truth and the Life. No man comes to the Father except by Me.’ (John 14:6),” says E. in my “She Blossoms” Facebook group. “Satan is the father of lies and he wants to bring as many people as he can to hell with him. Jesus died in our place for our sins because God loves us and wants nothing more than for us to spend eternity with Him. God is a personal God who wants a personal and intimate relationship with us, but that can only happen when we confess and accept Jesus as our Savior.”

What do you think? Your thoughts on believing in God versus having a relationship with Jesus are welcome below! I read every comment, and don’t worry: I won’t give advice or tell you what to believe about God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit. It’s your turn to talk.

If you’re struggling with pain and grief, read How to Find God and Heal Your Broken Heart.

xo


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3 thoughts on “From Believing in God to Having a Relationship With Jesus

  • Laurie Post author

    I’m sorry I haven’t responded to your comment; I often get a sudden barrage of comments, and can’t answer them all. You were facing a difficult situation when you wrote about your marriage, and about your relationship with God. Has anything changed over the past few months? How are you doing and feeling now?

    My prayer is that you find wisdom, courage and strength as you move forward. Most of all, may you go from believing in God to having a personal relationship with Jesus — because that is where you’ll find answers! Nobody can tell you what to do about your marriage or life. Nobody can give you the perfect solution or “right” advice. It’s important for you to work this through God, to wrestle with your faith and life until you come to the next best step for you.

    How has your relationship with God changed over the past few months?

  • Cindy

    Morning , I would like to ask you for advise. I have been married to a very complicated man with an alcoholic addiction for 30 years. I have been a committed Christian for all our marriage. We have two beautiful daughters (both married) with children.
    I have tried to be a good wife and mother throughout our marriage. He has been abusive (verbally) to me and the children as often alcoholic are. I have studied read books begged threaten you name it I have tried it. I even went to Alcoholics Anonymous for help which I totally hated, so stopped. I began to drift further and further into depression and started taking anti-depression tablets which did not help with my desire to be intimate with my husband although I never denied him. 5 years ago he had an affair which nearly broke me completely. I lost so much weight as I stopped eating. I was so weak and I really begged him to come back to me. He did come back and his drinking did not stop.
    I Carried on trying to help as all enablers do, but nothing changed. There are so many things that have happened in my family with his relationship with our daughters which I will not elaborate. (Only verbal abuse)?I see how the alcoholism has affected them . My oldest daughter moved from SA to Canada three weeks ago, my youngest daughter got married 23 September . I pulled away from my husband over the past year not allowing him to be intimate with me and gave him (finally )an ultimatum to either get help or our marriage was over. He moved out on the 5 October.
    Since then I have felt relief . I have grown in my relationship with God. He has tried everything to get me back. He has threaded divorce which I said was ok, he threated me with cutting off my financial supply, I gave him a book to read called, Freedom from addiction, which he read. He has said he finally realizes that he is free in Jesus. It seems as if he has a change of heart as yesterday he came to church with me and went to the pastor to ask for counseling (which I have said is non negotiable). I have explained how I feel as I am no longer prepared to carry on in this marriage the way it is. He has admitted he is at fault but I am not sure what to do from here. Past history says he will never change but I have been praying for him to come to this point in his life. He has never done this before admitting he needs God and counseling. I just feel very dead inside. I was at the point of divorce (I went to a lawyer) and was just waiting for the right time as seeing my oldest daughter leave the country with my precious grandchildren and my youngest getting married just three weeks before was all so overwhelming. I have not been able to sleep for years so I take meds for that too.
    I am 54 years old and feel as if I don’t have any more time to waste. I am an artist and even that has come to a stand still.
    In April this year I received a message from an old friend in US who has been communicating with me. He is a committed Christian and wants me to go visit if I get a divorce, I have told him that I have to give my husband every possible chance before I do that. I know in my heart that God wants me to be happy and that I need to do what is right. I know my decision to leave my husband should not be motivated by another man. That is also not right. But I feel so confused as to what is right anymore as I am unsure that my husband will ever step up to be the godly man he can be. Please could you guide me in some way. When I think of leaving my husband I become extremely anxious, but not leaving makes me feel extremely sad and broken. Thanks for listening

  • lara

    Hi Laurie,
    I have read your article more than once more than twice and I am taking away a great deal from it. The two questions I asked you are here:
    What do you mean by saying “even the devil believes”?
    What is the difference between believing in Jesus (or a Higher Power) and having a relationship with Him?
    Of course I quoted you and from your words, I got the questions.
    As I have been reflecting on your article and searching in my mind and life I all at once realized that the FIRST question was the pivotal question I had asked (for me). Not the second! Even though when I wrote to you iI mainly thought I had the need for guidance regarding the the second question because I LIKE to see my “good side” and I like working on that side.
    But alas I had never even glimpsed the other sided (or dared not).
    I had no idea that in my relationship with my HP I was totally blocking and thus denying the existence of the Devil, or Evil. While I do have an ongoing relationship with my HP (altho of course I can always use suggestions and a brush up) I have not been taking into account the reality of evil in this world, even when it has been there right in front of me! And even when it was seducing me. I now realize that this is Satan’s way of seducing me to NOT DARE LOOK. And it works especially I had no fear of EVIL because I was in denial about it.. I was seduced to “not see” because I do not want to see in fact. (So I am (was) easy to manipulate!).

    Anyhow I see this has played out over and over again in my life and because this “not seeing” has repeatedly involved people very close to me. I have not wanted to see. But by not seeing I have taken on huge burdens I can not handle myself. Only God would be able to handle such things.
    So I think part of what will change in my daily relationship with my HP is to let God be God and for me to step down from that overwhelming role. And furthermore for me to pray for deliverance from evil as it surely exists and WILL read havoc if I am not careful! Does this make sense? Hugs Lara xo