How to Find the Right Brain Games and Exercises

If brain games actually work, what are the best exercises to improve memory and cognitive health? Do women in midlife need different types of brain and mental exercises? These tips will give you lots to think about.

I also included the 10 most common questions midlife women ask about boosting memory and improving brain health. Last but not least are three fun, creative ways to relax your mind and relieve the stress of all that thinking.

Did you know that laughter boosts your cognitive health because it increases blood flow to the neurons in your brain? Laughing might not be categorized as a “brain game” but it’s great way for women of all ages to stay healthy.

Here’s a chuckle to boost your brain cells: “Men forget everything; women remember everything. That’s why men need instant replays in sports. They’ve already forgotten what happened.” – Rita Rudner.

These tips for choosing the right brain games to sharpen memory, improve thinking and increase cognitive health for women 50+ are from brain fitness aficionado Alex Colket, creator of

How to Keep Your 50 Year Old Brain Healthier Stronger and Sharper midlife blossoms

“There is a lot of talk these days about using brain games to train your mind,” says Alex. “Every month, another study touts the efficacy of brain training and further emphasizes the importance of brain fitness. With this research comes an ever-growing number of brain fitness programs; now, there are thousands of so-called ‘brain games’ available on the internet.”

Is brain training as simple as choosing the right brain games, playing for a few hours, and then conquering the world as a 50 year old woman with a great memory? Nope. Not all brain games – or brains – are equal. Here are Colket’s tips for finding the right brain games and exercises for women over 50, plus important factors to consider.

5 Tips for Choosing the Right Brain Games 

The games you choose and the way you play them affect how beneficial they are. Some exercises and activities sharpen your brain more than others.

1. Find a reputable creator of brain games

Your best bet is to find an online organization dedicated to boosting memory and improving brain health for women 50+, as opposed to just playing games on larger websites.  In most cases, the organizations dedicated to brain exercise are designed more intelligently and are better suited to challenge users in constructive ways. Look for evidence that the game designers know something about women over 50, brain fitness, and neuroscience.

2. Challenge your weaknesses

It’s often more fun to play games that display your skill rather than expose your weaknesses, but just playing towards your strengths is not as beneficial as improving on your weaknesses. Brain games are a great way to challenge yourself in ways that your daily life does not – especially if you actively try to find new ways to improve your memory and thinking skills. A woman over 50 can easily boost brain power simply by immersing herself in new sights, sounds, experiences and tastes.

3. Find a brain game or exercise you like playing

One condition for effective neuroplasticity (the process of making changes in your brain) is attention. If you are playing or participating in something that is not engaging or holding your attention, your brain is far less likely to improve or get stronger.

If you need tips, read 9 Brain Games and Creative Activities for Couples 50+.

4. Make sure the brain game gets harder as you get better

Find a game that has adjustable difficulties or progressively gets harder as you improve your memory and thinking skills. It is important that the level of challenge increases proportionately to your skill level. As a woman over 50, you don’t want to waste your time playing a game that is too easy or too hard and thus of no benefit.

5. Avoid playing the same games repeatedly

The more often you do an activity – or play a brain fitness game – the lazier your mind gets. Your brain is so smart it actually learns how and when to go into “sleep” mode (auto pilot, like when you’re driving) so it conserves energy. Your goal when doing cognitive exercises is to keep your brain alert, active, and awake! That’s why you should avoid playing the same brain games repeatedly…even if they’re the right brain exercises for you.

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The Wooden Puzzle Magic Ball Brain Teasers Toy Intelligence Game Sphere Puzzles for Adults all rolled into one. It’s a mind puzzle with different levels for adults and kids of all ages; it helps to exercise the brain, develop intelligence, improve problem-solving ability, and relieve stress.

When You Exercise and Improve Your Brain Health…

1. Opt for regular short practices rather than prolonged sessions

Your brain health will improve faster if you play a game for 15 minutes every day versus sitting down and playing for two hours straight. Taking breaks and returning to the cognitive game or activity later helps facilitate the learning process, improves memory, and ensures that your mind stays sharp and attentive throughout the process.

2. When possible, combine brain exercise with physical exercise

It wasn’t my 50th birthday when I bought myself a treadmill desk – I didn’t want to wait that long! I walk while reading, writing, and listening to podcasts (if it’s too cold or rainy to walk outside). Schedule your brain training sessions or games right after your physical exercise, so your brain has plenty of blood and energy. You’ll glean more from the brain games when your mind is alert and ready to learn.

3. Find ways to stay motivated

Some online brain games and programs have a storyline or reward system for measuring progress. I’ve never been into games (and am even less so now that I’m a 54 year old woman) but my husband is drawn to games that involve him in some sort of story. If you like brain games, find ones that involve others and their stories. The more motivated you are to learn and make changes, the easier it’ll be to improve your memory and thinking skills. It’s definitely OK to have fun with your brain exercise

5. Remember that exercising your brain like exercising your body

Your lungs, muscles, organs and even your bones need daily exercise. Your brain also needs to be exercised so it stays healthy and strong. The best brain exercise tip for women 50 plus is to do a variety of activities. Keep your brain on her toes by surprising her with new challenges.

399 Games, Puzzles & Trivia Challenges Specially Designed to Keep Your Brain Young – Exercising your brain and cognitive strength is like exercising your body. With the right program, you can keep your brain young, strong, agile, and adaptable.

Organized on an increasing scale of difficulty from “Warm-up” to “Merciless,” here are 399 puzzles, trivia quizzes, brainteasers, and word game that are both fun and engaging to play. These are the right brain games, expertly designed to give your brain the kind of workout that stimulates neurogenesis, the process of rejuvenating the brain by growing new brain cells.

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How Can I Improve My Brain Health? 10 Frequently Asked Questions

These questions and answers will show you how to fight the typical age-related memory loss that most women over 50 experience…

1. How do “neurobic” exercises improve cognitive health?

Certain brain exercises can create new associations between different parts of the brain and reduce memory loss, according to neurobiologist Lawrence Katz of Duke University. Neurobics include getting dressed or showering in the dark, switching what you normally wear on one side to the other (e.g., put your watch or bracelet on your opposite wrist), or even hanging pictures upside down. You can exercise your brain by surprising it with new situations.

2. Does drinking alcohol kill brain cells?

The more alcohol you consume, the lower your brain volume becomes. Low brain volume leads to memory loss and poor concentration. Scientists at Wellesley College in Massachusetts found that low to moderate levels of alcohol helps protect your health from cardiovascular disease, but heavy drinking shrinks brains for people of all ages.

These researchers define heavy drinking as more than 14 drinks per week, moderate drinking as 8 to 14 drinks per week, and low as less than 7 drinks per week.

4. Are women 50 plus old to sharpen their brain and reduce memory loss?

An active brain can slow the mental decline that comes with age. “A lifetime of good mental habits pays off,” says University of Alberta researcher Dr. Dennis Foth. “People who are curious at a young age are more likely to be mentally active and stay active as they age. And we found it’s never too late to start. With a little effort, even people in their 70s and 80s can see dramatic improvements.” Women over 50 might enjoy memorizing poetry, learning a new musical instrument, or taking Spanish or French lessons.

4. Are certain smells good for the brain?

“Natural scents such as sandalwood have a direct pathway to the brain, and research shows that some chemical constituents of aromatherapy oils, particularly…sesquiterpenes can cross the blood-brain barrier and increase oxygen flow to the brain,” says naturopathic health practitioner Michelle Schoffro Cook.

Extra oxygen increases energy, immune function, positive moods, and learning. Frankincense and sandalwood are particularly effective at increasing oxygen levels in the brain — which will reduce memory loss.

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Light an aromatherapy candle while you’re diving into books such as The Easy and Relaxing Memory Activity Book for Adults: Includes Relaxing Memory Activities, Easy Puzzles, Brain Games and More. They’re both helpful ways to boost brain power for midlife women over fifty.

5. How does physical exercise help a 50 year old woman’s brain?

Complicated fitness and exercise routines, such as dancing the tango, requires twists and turns that strengthens brain connections. Learning to dance the cha-cha-cha can nourish brain cells, which translates to quick thinking in the real world.

“Exercise can protect the brain against environmental toxins by counteracting free radicals and reducing inflammation,” says Schoffro Cook. Physical activity is one of the best ways to promote the growth of new brain cells and reduce memory loss.

6. How does socializing improve brain health?

Talking can make your memory better and improve your thinking skills, says Oscar Ybarra, a psychologist at the University of Michigan. Further, he believes that visiting with a friend or neighbor may be as helpful as doing a crossword puzzle.

About his study, he said, “Short-term social interaction lasting for just 10 minutes boosted participants’ intellectual performance as much as engaging in so-called ‘intellectual’ activities for the same amount of time.” Ironically, I was also told that women 50+ become more introverted as they get older.

7. What is the best brain exercise for women over 50?

Don’t rely on one specific brain exercise, practice, supplement, or food to increase your brain health. Instead, incorporate different activities into your life. For instance, take a child hiking if you normally spend time with other women 50 plus.

Go for a bike ride instead of the usual yoga class. The more you challenge your brain and body, the healthier and stronger they both become, and the less memory loss you’ll face. Also, remember that nutritious food is good for your brain. Strive for variety in the foods you eat.

8. Does volunteering make me smarter?

“Good Samaritans have been found to have lower stress levels and a sense of well-being, factors that add up to better overall health, including brain health,” says Schoffro Cook, author of Boost Your Brain Power in 60 Seconds: The 4-Week Plan for a Sharper Mind, Better Memory, and Healthier Brain.

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The brain fitness benefits of volunteering include increased mental functioning and better communication skills. The key may be in the “helper’s high” – the sense of calmness and well-being that comes from helping others.

9. Does sleep improve memory and brain health?

Your brain requires huge amounts of energy to function properly; sleep boosts memory and allows your brain to process information. “Though it’s not sexy, the traditional sleep advice is still effective,” says Dr Rachel Morehouse of the Atlantic Sleep Centre. Sleep little – if at all – during the day because naps rob you of sleep at night.

Get up and go to bed at set times. Stay active but avoid exercising in the evening because it keeps you awake. Wind down before you go to bed with music or a book. To keep your 50 year old brain fit, enjoy healthy food, eat light meals at night, and avoid caffeine.

10. What are the worst foods for the brain?

Pesticides, herbicides, harmful chemicals, food additives, and chemically altered ingredients are the worst brain foods. While it’s not possible to completely eliminate pollution from your environment, you can limit it. Pure products, organic produce, natural fragrances, whole foods, and fresh air will make your memory better and boost your brain health. 

3 Ways to Relax Your Brain and Relieve Stress

Check out these fun, creative stress busters for women 50 plus – because finding the most unusual ways to relax is the best way to deal with everyday stressors.

Here are two starter tips for relieving stress and getting the blood flowing to your brain: wear an eye patch when you’re feeling irritable, and get out your hula hoop! Both will lower your blood pressure and help you stay healthy.

“Stress is basically a disconnection from the earth, a forgetting of the breath,” says bestselling author and teacher Natalie Goldberg, who was once a 50 year old woman. “Stress is an ignorant state. It believes that everything is an emergency. Nothing is that important. Just lie down.”

1. Do the polka (because remembering the steps will boost the right parts of your brain!). “We have a CD called ‘Polka Therapy,’ which was written as a ‘drug-free way to cope with the stress of modern-day life,'” says 65 year old Cheryl on 7 Ways to Keep Busy When You’re Bored of Retirement.

“We’ve taken ordinary problems and written polkas about them. We’ve got, for example, the “Road Rage Polka,” the “Pooper Scooper Polka,” and the “Middle-Aged Hip-Hop Polka.” There are many more, and they really are funny. I’m a big believer in humor being one of the biggest stress-relievers in the world. My 72 year old husband and I do the hokey pokey with our grandchildren and it keeps us young!”

2. Remember a moment of laughter and joy from the past. Talk 15 minutes to recall a beautiful experience from your recent or distant past. Reflect on the smells, sounds, tastes, sights and feels of everything around you. This may not be a traditional online brain game – and it’s not proven to be the best way to improve your cognitive health or memory, but it will make you feel great. You may also have a few chuckles while you’re remembering the past.

If you’re feeling playful, take a deeper dive into your past. What did you do as a child? Try blowing bubbles, hula-hooping (which also burns calories and tones your core at the same time), bouncing on a mini-trampoline, and riding your bicycle. If you have a difficult problem to solve (a brain game challenge or just life itself), let your brain reflect on it while you play.

3. Do the hokey pokey. “My kids are ages 13, 11, 9, 7, and 4,” says Christina on 12 Gifts That Sporty Seniors Will Love. “The corona virus and social isolation is extremely stressful on us as a big family! I’m home schooling them all. Before COVID-19 I was operating my business from home. Now I can’t work because the kids are here full-time. Six people in one house 24/7 can get stressful sometimes! Especially when the older kids can’t get the academic help they need and are banging their heads against the table because the math problems are insolvable.

We always fall back on the Hokey Pokey. The rule is that everyone in the house has to participate. Everyone. It’s impossible to stay grumpy while shaking your left elbow at everyone. It always ends with us all in a heap on the floor in masses of giggles. That’s what it’s all about!”

If you’re a woman in midlife growing older alone (like me), and you don’t have grandchildren to do with the hokey pokey with (like me), and you don’t have the energy or desire to dance with anyone (like me), read

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  1. @Ventego

    Remember, brain training is a learning process, and as is the case with any such process, it takes time and effort. In all likelihood, you will not notice any immediate changes, but if you keep up with your exercise and training you should experience measurable improvements in your cognition. Where these improvements take place and how they manifest themselves will depend on what sort of exercises you are doing and how much you are doing them… and even then there will be considerable variation from person to person as each of our minds is unique.

    But yes, if you pick some memory exercises aimed at improving your memory for names and dates, and stick to them, in time you should definitely notice improvement in that area, and possibly in other aspects of memory as well.

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